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Vaginal atrophy / GSM and orgasm

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MaryWesmacott · 02/08/2025 09:17

Hi all

Here is an odd one for you. I have been a sufferer of vaginal atrophy and am being treated for it. I don't have penetrative sex anymore for a variety of reasons but still can orgasm via clitoral means. However, after this happens I don't feel 'quite right' for a few days afterwards. It is like still feeling somewhat aroused in the awareness / aching kind of way but it is in no way pleasant and is actually really annoying.

This actually started after I had a Mirena IUD so perhaps this is also something to do with it (don't have it anymore - was taken out about about a year ago)

Has anyone experienced anything like this and did you find any way to stop it?

Thanks for reading XX

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PeggyMitchellsCameo · 02/08/2025 09:27

Totally understand how you feel, have the same condition and can’t have penetrative sex anymore either.
I think everything in the area feels so thin that it alerts every nerve ending, so an orgasm might be nice in the moment but afterwards everything feels overly sensitive.
I often find now after that I get a yeast infection, have friends who battle constant UTIs.
Sorry don’t have much in the way of answers. I have had vulval pain for many years and have an anaesthetic cream I am allowed to use when it is really bad - it’s called lidocaine and my GP prescribes it after seeing a specialist. That feels odd in itself when the whole area feels numb, but it is a bit of a relief.
Have you tried oestrogen pessaries or local oestrogen cream to the area?

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