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Can anyone please help

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Noonah76 · 29/07/2025 17:11

Hi all
Im 49 and have been on HRT for 18 months as I had really dark thoughts and felt very low. but came off it 4 months ago because I have adenomyosis and the oestrogen I was taking was playing this up and sometimes in pain. 6 weeks after stopping I got the dark thoughts back feel very low and worse so I went back on hrt about 9 weeks ago and it’s just not the same as I was before I stopped? I rang the doctors and they have put me on progesterone every day as I was noticing a dip when I wasn’t on the progesterone like depressed, so they think it could help me? I still feel quite low and don’t know what to do? Any help as to what would work would be great thank you ☺️

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Lizzbear · 29/07/2025 21:27

Sorry to hear this op. I get awful anxiety and depression with menopause. I’m on hrt patches and Sertraline. But I would like to have my bloods done and hormones checked as they really affect my emotions.
sending hugs and following for more advice.

Noonah76 · 29/07/2025 22:11

Sorry to hear this too it’s very frustrating, I get no other symptoms just my brain working overtime and feel that perimenopause has sucked all my happiness, they have prescribed setraline but I was going to see if thanking progesterone everyday might help? I also have 2 pumps of gel.

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PersephoneParlormaid · 30/07/2025 07:03

I also get the brain working overtime thing, it often keeps me awake in the night. And I also feel like I can’t find my happy any more. I’ve no desire to have days out or go in holiday, and I’ve been on HRT for 4 years. I don’t think it’s the cure all that people say it is.

StrayGoose · 30/07/2025 07:08

200-400mg of L-Theanine at night before bed, and again in the morning changed my life. It’s an amino acid and doesn’t interact with anything. I take it with my HRT at night and with a small black coffee first thing in the morning. It has revolutionised my focus, improved my sleep, and the anxiety is greatly reduced.

Edit: (Some supplements come with a B vitamin attached, good for the morning but not for the night dose)

Noonah76 · 30/07/2025 09:57

PersephoneParlormaid · 30/07/2025 07:03

I also get the brain working overtime thing, it often keeps me awake in the night. And I also feel like I can’t find my happy any more. I’ve no desire to have days out or go in holiday, and I’ve been on HRT for 4 years. I don’t think it’s the cure all that people say it is.

Hi, yes I’m feeling the same but I didn’t when I first went in it? I’m not sure I need to up my oestrogen maybe as I’m on 2 pumps a day. I also take vit b12, collagen, folic acid. I’ll see how I get on with the everyday progesterone but I’m absolutely zonked in the morning. I also take magnesium before bed.

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Noonah76 · 30/07/2025 10:02

StrayGoose · 30/07/2025 07:08

200-400mg of L-Theanine at night before bed, and again in the morning changed my life. It’s an amino acid and doesn’t interact with anything. I take it with my HRT at night and with a small black coffee first thing in the morning. It has revolutionised my focus, improved my sleep, and the anxiety is greatly reduced.

Edit: (Some supplements come with a B vitamin attached, good for the morning but not for the night dose)

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Hi Thankyou for your comment I’ll buy some of those today. I am taking magnesium aswell before bed to help me sleep which I don’t have a problem with the sleep it’s just the over analyzing and thinking of every little thing and also the low that I feel I’m smiling but I’d rather be in a cupboard by myself and that isn’t me at all. I’m 50 next year and I’m thinking maybe I’m coming close to menopause and that’s why it’s getting worse and maybe I need something else until I get through it maybe testosterone as I have no libido either. Thankyou

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PersephoneParlormaid · 30/07/2025 13:12

I have the mirena coil. It’s a low, continuous dose of progesterone.
I take my gel in the morning as it was affecting my sleep at night

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