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Feel like I'm losing my mind

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Laurajm1981 · 30/06/2025 19:26

I'm 44 and very likely to be in perimenopause. Lately, the most worrying symptom is forgetfulness, sometimes little things like where I put things, but now tasks I have done every day at work for the last 10 years I'm not doing and could have serious consequences. Can anyone offer advice on what I can do to help? My doctor just says my cycle is still pretty regular so can't help.

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ElectricCaterpillar · 30/06/2025 19:55

See a gynae who specialises in menopause and get hrt. Some GPs are hopeless with meno. Or try a different GP. I had terrible cognitive issues pre hrt.

itwasthegintalking · 30/06/2025 20:19

Have had very similar issues too. Mid sentence panic as I can’t remember the word for what I am wanting to say and then desperately trying to think of how else to complete the sentence. It’s denting my confidence, especially it a work situation 😩

godmum56 · 01/07/2025 22:08

Practically you can set up alarms and reminders on your phone?

HappyHedgehog247 · 01/07/2025 22:19

HRT will help dramatically if this is peri. You can get it while still menstruating regularly.

theblackradiator · 03/07/2025 11:16

Can relate as im exactly like this too, I literally cannot remember where I put something just seconds ago. Mind goes blank mid sentence.It's awful as I feel like my brain is dying. I feel so inadequate. I get so angry with myself for not remembering anything.
I used to be so sharp with a fantastic memory. Also cannot get HRT because im not yet experiencing hot flushes, although I have every other symptom. im no help op but just want to let you know you're not alone.

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