So... I've had a sudden epiphany! Which is that, with my 40th birthday round the corner, I might be entering perimenopause.
Have spent the last few months confused about a few different symptoms- and it's now all falling into place a bit.
Anyway, the reason for my post is that, among other things, one of the changes is my weight. I'm a healthy weight currently. My bmi is 24-ish - so obviously wouldn't do any harm to lose a few pounds potentially. But the issue is that all the additional weight has gone on round my middle. When I do lose weight, it comes off my legs and other places that don't really need to lose weight! So I suppose my question is, so I need to just accept this new body shape and find ways of dressing it that don't draw attention to my belly? Or have people found anything helpful during perimenopause that reduces the weight gain around the middle. Obviously it's great to exercise regularly for health etc.- but I haven't really noticed that it makes any difference when it comes to fat distribution. Sigh!