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Surgical menopause

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Heathershimmerwinner · 01/02/2025 11:49

Hi I am 50, and am going through surgical menopause. I had my ovaries out early September last year. At first it was the hot flushes, a few aches and pains, itchy female region. But the past few weeks, good god I have been feeling like shite!!
The past few days my joints have been so painful. I couldn’t really move my fingers either. Today is a bit better. I’m crying all the time. My face is itchy and dry.

Does this happen? 20 weeks after surgery it’s got worse? I just thought it all happened together soon after surgery. I have no clue about menopause.

I was on venlaflaxine for the hot flushes but came of two weeks ago due to flushes coming back. Plus I couldn’t stop eating on them 😢.
Strange that all the other menopause symptoms are here when I stop the venlaflaxine.

seeing doctor next week about HRt. I have been putting it off, but the time has came.

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Sususudio · 01/02/2025 11:52

I had a surgical menopause a year ago
Didnt have any of this. Sounds very difficult. I went on HRT straightaway. I dp have hot flushes but manageable.
My skin is definitely drier but Cetaphil moisturiser works for me.

creamsnugjumper · 01/02/2025 12:17

Good luck op that sounds hard and HRT should really help with the symptoms, your body is missing its oestrogen so that does affect every single part of us.

Can I ask why you didn't go on straight away? I have a friend who making the same decision soon as her surgery is next week but she's been offered a HRT plan.

Heathershimmerwinner · 01/02/2025 13:20

creamsnugjumper · Today 12:17
I had colon cancer which spread to my right ovary. It’s curative and I’m cancer free now.
The oncologist says I can go on HRT and my cancer wasn’t hormonal eg ovarian or breast cancer. She said it was safe.
I said I’d try different methods first, have tried a few things but they seem to stop working after a while. I’m going to give the HRT a go.
I have a twin and she’s sailing through menopause. It must be bacause mines is surgical, it makes the symptoms worse.

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