Peri lack of libido

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I have zero interest in sex, I'm 47 and hoping HRT will help, looking to start it on my next period.

Any positive experiences?
After a sexless and miserable marriage I'm now in a lovely relationship, however about 6 months ago I lost all desire. Id rather be drinking tea and cleaning the skirting boards...yes it's that bad.

First, have you discussed this with your partner? Communication is important during perimenopause and menopause.

Yes I have, he's understanding, we laugh about it in a way. But it bothers me, I want to feel the urge again.