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WellHereWeAreAgain · 19/02/2023 00:50

I'm well into peri, with many symptoms, but the biggest issues have been sleep and loss of libido. For nearly 2 years I average around 3-4 hours max of sleep a night. Interest in sex had disappeared completely.

I've been on HRT (gel) since mid-dec and 2 weeks ago they upped my dose. Sleep is still an issue but suddenly tonight I've been here dozing off and had the most vivid dream 😉 Could this be the return???

Sadly sleep still hasn't improved but I'm told that's one of the last things to fall into place.

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CrystalMaisie · 19/02/2023 01:11

For me sleep was the very first symptom that was sorted, I’ve always been a good sleeper but was struggling to fall asleep then having awful nightmares. I guess we’re all different.
How is your brain fog/ clarity of thought? Along with labido, testosterone is the hormone supposed to help those symptoms in particular.
Sleep well tonight, hope you have another dream!

Rhondaa · 19/02/2023 07:54

Apply the gel on a morning if you don't already. It can be a stimulant and some women report weird dreams with disturbed sleep if taken pm. It says it doesn't matter when it's taken but I know women whive swapped to a.m and their sleep has improved massively.

KangarooKenny · 19/02/2023 07:56

I found that alcohol was giving me an agitated sleep, so stopped drinking.
Magnesium has been a big help too

JuneFromBethesda · 19/02/2023 13:45

I agree with @CrystalMaisie, my sleep problems disappeared very soon after starting HRT. Still no signs of my libido reappearing over 12 months later … 😫

DelphiniumBlue123 · 20/02/2023 07:10

KangarooKenny · 19/02/2023 07:56

I found that alcohol was giving me an agitated sleep, so stopped drinking.
Magnesium has been a big help too

Which type of magnesium do you take?

NotLovingWFH · 20/02/2023 07:13

Have been using Testin gel for almost a year now and it seems to have nothing except be yet another thing to remember to do every day. Oh and increase body hair, but libido - nada.

Sadlifter · 20/02/2023 07:16

My sleep improved almost instantly once I started utrogestan at night. I also take magnesium (cheap, amazon, comes in a bag). Not drinking helps too. I use one pump of gel in the am and one in the pm.

AlisonDonut · 20/02/2023 07:31

DelphiniumBlue123 · 20/02/2023 07:10

Which type of magnesium do you take?

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