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Who is that old woman??

20 replies

Joy69 · 11/08/2022 17:51

So tried on a few clothes today in the sales & caught sight of myself in the mirrors ( back & front view mirrors) I look flippin ancient, dumpy tummy, jowelly kneck & naff hair. When the hell did this happen??
Anyone else had the shock of theiir lives?

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sfkjhasdjif · 11/08/2022 21:07

Me hahahahahahahaaahahaahahahahahahahahaha bitch that was me

Fififizz · 12/08/2022 14:22

Yep, when I put my glasses on and see how I really look! 😂 It’s easy to feel frumpy post lockdown when life just stopped and we took our focus of personal grooming etc…

Eviebeans · 12/08/2022 14:29

Yep looked in the mirror and saw a chubby little grey washed out version of the woman who used to be me

hoochyhag · 13/08/2022 10:02

I've stared glimpsing her as well . Drat her!
She's started to look like my mum too 😂

Eviebeans · 14/08/2022 03:33

She looks like my mum and sounds a bit like my nan

Blueuggboots · 14/08/2022 03:40

Just trying to take a photo for a work thing.....THAT IS NOT ME??! 😥😥😥

Jannie62 · 14/08/2022 03:49

Went to a Wedding recently. So disappointed in my outfit choice, when I saw the photo’s. Also shocked at what a difference that extra stone, which just wouldn’t shift, made to my figure. All downhill from here, I guess! 🥴

KatharineofAragon · 14/08/2022 03:52

Yes:, completely relate to this. My passport needs to be renewed. The person on it bears no relation to me! What has happened in the past ten years?!!

badbaduncle · 14/08/2022 03:59

😂😂😂😂😂😂

Lightning020 · 14/08/2022 03:59

The lighting in clothing stores is rarely flattering.

Everybody looks grim like an armed convict in passport photos. I looked hideous even in my 30s in them.

if you aren 't happy with grey hair then box dye is excellent. I have been using L oving Care brand for nearly 30 years.

Joy69 · 14/08/2022 19:54

My figure has morphed into my Mums too. I vowed I'd never be bigger than a 12. I've now cancelled that vow, tunic dresses are made for a reason 😆

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AuntieDolly · 14/08/2022 20:09

Have you ever seen yourself in the ring doorbell? Now that is frightening! ( and I walk like a womble )

Nsky62 · 14/08/2022 20:11

It’s an unwelcome guest menopause, then I got post menopausal depression started at 45 now 60

PinaColadaSunset · 14/08/2022 20:13

Me. It’s shockingly shit.

ticktickticktickBOOM · 14/08/2022 20:19

I used to look curvy - now I just look like a sack of potatoes. All lumpy and mis-shapen. My hair sprouts grey straight upwards out of the top like a turnip.

Georgeskitchen · 14/08/2022 20:26

Browsing a clothing store a while back, I became aware of scruffy looking woman with ratty hair staring at me.
It took me a little while to realise they had large mirrors on the wall. I realised with horror that that the person staring was my own reflection 🤣🤣

ScarlettDarling · 14/08/2022 20:28

Ever opened the camera on your phone by mistake when looking down at it 😳😩
How can that be me???

cocktailclub · 15/08/2022 05:47

I look nothing like me. I can't shift 1 and a half stone no matter what I do. I have two chins. My shape has changed and it's not just the weight I put on.
Going away soon and not really looking forward to it as nothing fits properly and I'm all puffy when I fly anywhere

WhereAreWeNow · 16/08/2022 12:08

I feel like this too. Feeling really down about it at the moment.

Nospringchix · 20/08/2022 19:23

So I'm not the only one feeling this way!
Larger waist, hair loss, oh joy!

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