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Paranoid about early menopause! Can periods change with age without it being sinister

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ChiquititaCat · 15/07/2022 01:35

So I'm 27 and I always get health anxiety when going through something stressful (currently going through a breakup)

But I still can't help worrying! My periods used to be very heavy and extremely painful in my teens and my early twenties. I used to bleed for 5/6 days. Then at around 23/24 they got a little more regular and much less painful, but also the flow got lighter and I started to bleed for 4 days.

I'm now 27 and my periods are regular (normally 29-32 days, aside from very occasionally being a week late when stressed, but this only happened once or twice in the last year), but I'm worried that I now experienced very little pain and the flow is nowhere near as heavy as it used to be in my teens. I think it's still normal, I definitely need to change a pad every three hours in the first two days, so I don't know if this is a cause for concern? I bleed for 4 days but the last day is just spotting.

Has anyone else had this?

I would like to have children one day, and I read somewhere that lighter periods can indicate perimenopause? This really freaked me out!

I had anxiety about this about this a while back and took an AMH test which came up with 23 pmol at 25, if that is any indication! Any thoughts or reassurance much appreciated x

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Cucumberbund · 15/07/2022 01:46

I think that's very normal to have heavier painful periods as a teen and then they become lighter, shorter and less painful in 20s. That's how it was for me an quite a few other I know.
In my case I'm 20 years older than you and just starting peri menopause. My period only lasts about a day properly and not heavy. I would only need a pad on the first day and liners for another day or two.
I hope that helps. Thing always seem worse at night when you're concerned.

JinglingHellsBells · 15/07/2022 07:59

Your periods sound perfectly normal.

If you were having them very far apart (more than 35 days) and the flow was very light, that might be a cause for worry.

Pain isn't an indicator of fertility.

If you are worried, have another AMH test but get it done properly (not an over the counter thing) by a fertility specialist and ask their advice.

SallyWD · 15/07/2022 09:34

Exactly the same happened to me. My periods in my teens were horrific!! They became much lighter and less painful in my 20s. After 8 had children in my 30s they became a bit heavier but much less painful again. Now I'm in my 40s they're all over the place!

ChiquititaCat · 17/07/2022 21:48

Thank you guys! You made me feel a lot better. I always get super health angsty when Im going through bad periods of time!x

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