Very irregular cycle

[Kataly29]

I'm definitely in perimenopause...im almost 44 and have been having symptoms for about a year. My periods were always very regular over the past year to 18 months my cycle has gotten slightly shorter from 28/29 to about 25....over the past few months I've had a couple of very short cycles about 20 days roughly then followed by a very long one today I am day 40 (this is the longest one) but I have all the PMT symptoms and have done what seems like constantly 🙄 am I to expect this now? I feel like shit 😪

I've been there, op, and I was a couple of years younger than you are now. It's shit. I got HRT and it's been an absolute life saver. I'm 47 now and still on it and I feel great. There's no need to suffer like you are.