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Ways to cheer myself up and hopefully others.

8 replies

Secondsight · 28/10/2019 02:42

Feeling crap about myself in that menopausal way. My life is rubbish, it really is not but its just a horrible feeling I cannot shake. What kind of things help you?
I'm going to start by getting an early night tomorrow night (I'm night shift tonight)
Get more fruit and vegetables.
Go for a nice coffee. I already do loads of exercise.
Any other ideas?

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Emerald13 · 28/10/2019 06:16

Hi! I try not to think so much about it! I feel that when I think so much about myself, my health, my appearance etc, I create new problems and anxiety. When I just go on my life I feel like my old self! :)

sashh · 28/10/2019 06:20

My grandmother used to do what she called her, "£2 treat" now it would have to be at least £10.

She didn't drive so she would get a bus/train to another town, mooch around the shops, have a nice coffee and cake somewhere and buy a magazine for the journey home.

Dontforgetyourbrolly · 28/10/2019 06:21

Keeping busy it's the only way. Deep cleaning the house / decorating / small projects in the garden.
I'm only 44 and have started the peri menopause , I'm lucky that I have a young child to keep me perky but when he's with his dad I start to feel awful about everything. It's not a busy time of year for us at work so ive started decorating.

rosie39forever · 28/10/2019 15:34

Two squares of dark chocolate with my afternoon tea, weight training class outside in the frost first thing in the morning🥶

TheCanterburyWhales · 28/10/2019 15:39

Definitely keeping busy. I'm worse when sitting thinking about it. At work I'm so rushed off my feet I forget my aches and pains for a couple of hours.

AutumnCrow · 28/10/2019 15:55

I really watch my diet now, and take multi-everything. I'm on thyroid medication and HRT. I'm ticking along ok.

whatisforteamum · 28/10/2019 16:33

A bubble bath.A scented candle in my bedroom.Mostly keeping super busy too.When I stop I realize what a sweaty miserable mess I am.One month in on HRT so onwards and upwards.

charm8ed · 28/10/2019 19:14

Plan lovely tasty healthy meals for yourself, prawns and salmon etc.
An indulgent bath.
Paint your nails.
Go and watch something good at the cinema.
See a friend.

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