Not sure if anyone has attended a Menopause Cafe (www.menopausecafe.net/) - these are group directed discussion of menopause with no agenda, objectives or themes.
The organisers are planning a Menopause Festival in Scotland next April - if you vote on the Aviva community fund website, this will help raise funds:
community-fund.aviva.co.uk/voting/project/view/4-1053