I've been hit by the menopause truck. 50 years old, irregular periods for 4 years, dry old nu-nu, zero libido.And now hot flushes burning me up on the hour. Awful! I have an appt in a couple of weeks with a private specialist & want to go with bio identical hormone treatment. I hate the hot flushes so much, desperately want them to go away. But anxious that the treatment might not work & I will have years of this. Could someone please help to manage my expectations? Thanks