I started this thread www.mumsnet.com/Talk/menopause/2355665-Dazed-and-confused last year, and since then so much has changed...
I saw a wonderful gynae who put me on Zoladex and Tibolone to see if they resolved my problems and they did so then he put me on the list for an oopherectomy and that's happening on Thursday this week.
The pain has completely gone with the HRT, and I LOVE having no periods!
I'm usually a bit chilly so the occasional hot flushes have been manageable, I don't seem to have been moody or bad tempered - I think I've done ok in the last few months.
So there I am, pre-op and looking forward to it...