I'm 38 and possibly going through a premature menopause. Lots of meno symptoms, irregular periods, a change in blood flow and duration, mood swings. Not got an official diagnosis of meno yet but hormone bloods have been abnormal in the past. Doctor thinks I may have polycystic ovaries, as apparently the symptoms are very similar to menopause. It's either one or the other. Anyway, this week the most awful night sweats have started. Iv'e been waking up 3 or 4 times a night drenched in sweat and the bed sheets damp. Heart palpitations also that come with the sweats. I'm really scared, it's frightening keep waking up in a panic and I'm so tired. Went to my doctor and he won't give me HRT until polycystic ovaries has been ruled out. Surely though, PCOS wouldn't cause such extreme night sweats ?? Also very stressed and anxious but also been told not to take antidepressants yet although I know from past experience these would calm me a little. What can I do ?