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Mature study and retraining

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Retraining as a midwife at 38 and returning to university

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GlitterInMyGin · Yesterday 17:26

so I’m thinking of retraining as a midwife and wondered if there was anyone out there that could give me some advice on their experiences either in midwifery training or going back to uni as a mature student?

I’ve been considering it on/off for the last few years as I love the idea of being there for Mothers during the birth. I had quite bad PPD during my kids early years and I’d like to do something worthwhile. Something about midwifery appeals to me. It also scares me a little as it’s entirely new and completely different to what I’ve done before but since I’ve taken up researching the role recently again I’m feeling a little excited about the prospect?

So a bit of background on me:
I am 38 yr old woman, 2x kids (8y son & 6y daughter) both settled at primary school.
I used to work in fashion until 10 yrs ago when we decided to move back home to the UK. I traveled well within my career and enjoyed the fast pace & buzz.
After having kids I’ve mainly worked in admin related roles- my current employer is fab (v understanding when kids are ill, flexible around term times, etc.) but I’ve ‘stretched’ the role as much as possible within the Business and, if I’m being honest, I’m bored!
My OH works in Management which is corporate and not much flexibility hence why my job has had to have all the flex around the kids. Re-shuffling this might be a struggle to start with around shift work but TBH I want my own career and progression.
Whilst we both love England we’re seriously considering going back to NZ just because we think it might be a better place for our kids to grow up in. Due to OH’s experience & quals he could get in under the live2residency visa. But I would be more comfortable also having a career that’s needed in the country, both for added financial security and my own happiness.

Any help of advice would be greatly appreciated ☺️

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nocoolnamesleft · Yesterday 21:29

My first question would be whether you have access to cast iron 24/7 childcare, for placements and when you started work. Shifts can make childcare very tricky.

WhoAteMyBiscuit · Yesterday 21:40

I think that going along to a few open days at universities offering the midwifery courses you're interested in would be a good start if you haven't done so already. You can ask the teaching team these questions and get more information about the support available to help you manage competing responsibilities (I work at an institution that provides a Midwifery degree, most of the students are "mature", I.e., over 21, so we get they will have caring roles etc). You should also have the opportunity to speak with other students currently studying the course, so they should be able to give you a real insider knowledge and top tips! Good luck!

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