Considering divorce - help!

[notsosure]

I am so glad I found this website.

I posted this problem on a different thread earlier on this evening too.

I have been with my partner for 13 years, 2 of which married and with my absolutely wonderful dd.
I am considering divorce, as the relationship seems loveless, too much hassle and making me lose my confidence.
I am so woried about my daughter and money (probably in that order).
DD is 23 months and loves her father to death.
We moved to be near to my husband's parents 5 years ago and I have made many friends here.
My question is:
Should I think about moving away from my husband when we divorce and live neaer to my family?
Would that be fair on DD?
Would DD cope?

What are your experiences, girls?

hey notsosure I got your email and have emailed back - take care

good advice teddi7.

T and DOH

Thanks for your replies.
Teddi7 I understand you don't want to give all details over the net. You sound like you've been through a lot. Sorry to be ignorant, but when you say CAT, what do you mean? I am new to this.

DOH - I replied to your email -will give bigger reply tomorrow.

Night night

Hinotsosure

CAT means contact another talker. If you look at the info just above the lists of conversations there is a list of "useful stuff" including a contact another talker- if you click on that it will tell you want to do

Teddi7

Sorry for the delay.
I'll CAT you.

notsosure