Can I just ask..................

[NervousNutty]

What is the longest you have gone without sex ??

what site you on there
SAGA?

I am debating trying a paying site, but i know i will be really pissed off with wasting my money if it turns out to be a waste of time.

www.plentyoffish.com

And if your daring and wanting fun...

www.adultfriendfinder.com

lol claire spill

I've used both once upon a time! Not for a long while though!!!

since i left my h in nov 05 about 4 months, when we first split

Not as long as it should have been

Well,it depends if you want a shag or if you want a partner. If it's the former, try swinging/contact sites, if it's the latter, I hear lots of good things about Guardian Soulmates. I can;t give a personal recommendation as I don't use dating sites because I don't want a partner, but one of my friends met her H through GS, and DS dad has had a lot of fun with people he met there.

3 months.....am on GS but not having any joy at the moment.

I'm out for drinks tomorrow and next friday though so I live in hope!!!

I forgot I had started this thread lol.

I think i'd be crap at no strings sex, cos I get too emotionally invloved, but as time goes on i'd be willing to risk it lol.

Not sure what the longest I have gone is, but used to happily go 3 months at a time without when married to exh & would have happily gone longer!

Oh yeah me too PC. Longest I went without when with xp was 10mths I think.

I remember exH bringing it up the night we decided to separate. He mentioned it only happening every 3 months or so & said "and then you are normally drunk when we do!"
I couldn't argue the point!!

The problem with xp and sex was that if I was even slightly affectionate towards him he would think that meant he was getting some and then he'd go off on one when I said no.

I simply stopped being affectionate with him at all in the end. He complained about that too, but couldn't see my point.

Awful when it gets like that isn't it? I dared not buy new underwear for the same reason - new underwear meant I must be wanting sex with him!!
Have a whole drawer full of nice underwear that I have bought since separating though!!

That part was actually fine with xp until near the end when i was trying to get him removed by the courts because he had been violent to my DS1!
Then he thought he could force himself on me. Twat! He only got as far as putting it in so it hasn't actually put me off sex in any way.

i have a better sex life now i am single than i did with my exh

8 months I think.

Me too, lou, by far!

Now now you too, you are making me go like this lol.

2 years, 2.6 years in the past.

With xp, I might as well say that I hardly ever had sex with him in the last 3.6 years of our 4 year 'relationship'. God knows how I managed to get Dd during that time.

Lol, sorry Nutty!

2 and a half yrs hmm...feels like longer, no end in sight as I don't socialise, don't date, nothing really - there is just no time for that stuff.

Nearest I have got is a friend;y snog with a VERY old friend the other week -we have never slept together - oh and fancying a bloke at school, who sadly is already wed so have to keep off that one.

not wishing to boast but there was 'rain fall during the drought' on Saturday night!!!