Do i have sole parental responsibility? I had an appointment for my son today she asked if I had sole parental responsibility, I explained no it was shared and she asked if father had given permission for appointment, I said no as we have no contact and haven’t for years but he is on the birth certificate, she said that means I have sole parental responsibility as im the one making the day to day decisions, is that right? Do I just say yes in future as it is awkward having to tell people he is not involved, what do others say?