ex now wants sole residency !!!!!!!!!!!

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ex shithead saw dd today and wouldnt sign forms for mediation so I lostmy rag at him a little oops - he then said that he was going to take me to court for sole residency as I am an unfit mother - long story but its all gone nasty since he admitted hes seeing someone else ( more on his side being nasty) anyway - he wants PR as well "just because I want it its my legal right" (nothing about the welfare of his dd etc etc) and because I lost my temper and shouted at him to F off hes decided Im an unfit mother and so cannot be a fit person to care for my dd.

Would a court really give him residency?? - he earns £150k + a year (but wouldnt give up his jpb to care for dd wont see her after school as it means finishing work early) and wants me to get a F/T job I work P/t school hrs term time earning £6k. He could obviously afford a nanny/childcare which I clearly cant and tbh I dont want my dd to go into childcare its only been 3 months since he walked out on us .

Has anyone else got any suggestions - I will of course see my solicitor about this but any advice now would be good

[Molly333]

Ha ha he's in for such a shock , stay put in yr job get maintenance via the csa ( then he has no control) and get tax credits , he's bulling you big time and he's about to lose ! Fight for yr life now for what u can get , he's trying yo make you weak ! Fight fight

[Onebuddhaisnotenough]

Zombie thread. This is 5 years old.