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How do people enjoy this every single day?

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GoldenCookie · 21/03/2025 19:09

How do people enjoy this day in and day out? Seriously? My kids have been absolutely vile today, just arguing constantly. Been really nasty to each other constant fighting. Since I picked them up from school they’ve been awful. I have them full time and people tell me “well you wouldn’t have it any other way would you” well actually yes I would. I would love a weekend to myself this weekend with how awful they’ve been today. Just constant bickering.

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TomatoSandwiches · 21/03/2025 19:14

Dinner, bath and early to bed when they're like this won't hurt op, start again in the morning.

GoldenCookie · 21/03/2025 19:15

They are teens. Zero chance of them going to bed at this time unfortunately.

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myusernameisacat · 21/03/2025 19:17

GoldenCookie · 21/03/2025 19:15

They are teens. Zero chance of them going to bed at this time unfortunately.

Would be funny to try tho 😂.

Seriously OP hang in there! Not too long to go with the difficult bit.

I've been a LP for 12 years now. Not quite in the teen years yet but always taken it a day at a time and have my own projects to focus on to keep me sane (business and work stuff, personal interests) - just a few mins here and there to focus on it and have a kind of background plan going on.

Perhaps a glass of wine might help!?

Thinking of you!

TomatoSandwiches · 21/03/2025 19:18

GoldenCookie · 21/03/2025 19:15

They are teens. Zero chance of them going to bed at this time unfortunately.

Oh dear 😂 no I can see that, why not put yourself to bed early instead, leave them to it x

Silvertulips · 21/03/2025 19:25

I agree, sometimes you need to walk away!

Let them see you are tired and upset, let them take care of you.

Put it in the group chat - I’m off to bed, I’m not feeling well, if anyone makes a drink please bring me one.

Then hide under the covers with your book!

Birdseyetrifle · 21/03/2025 19:28

I hear you op! I’m a lone parent with a teen. I just go to bed and ignore him 😂😂

GoldenCookie · 21/03/2025 20:56

I sometimes do leave them to it but I have things to do and hate being forced up to my room. They just really been awful today they normally don’t get on but today was just horrible.

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Eileen101 · 21/03/2025 20:59

I hear you op. Mine are 7 and 4 and have been bloody hard work the last two days. I had a good cry about it after putting them to bed yesterday.
Tomorrow is a new day. It was a 7pm bedtime for mine, as thankfully they are little, so early tea, bath, bed here.

GoldenCookie · 21/03/2025 21:00

Unfortunately they are at each other’s throats every day. They just don’t get on very opposites.

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