Is this a date??

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I am about even asking this..! I am not fifteen...but...

I have been emailing a friend of my brother's for ages, and we have all been out (brother also) to the cinema and for something to eat.

We are now off to the cinema tomorrow night (my suggestion), and yesterday I asked friend if he had mentioned it to my brother, and if he wanted to. He replied that he hasn't asked him, so we are going alone.

I have been single for three years now, and had a couple of awful dates through internet sites about eighteen months ago. My exh and I got together when we were in sixth form at school, and I have never really done the whole dating scene...Again !!

So, in your opinions, is this possibly a date?? Btw - there is also a not inconsiderable age difference, he is 28 and I am 33...

Thanks!

at the moment i am happy on my own but i worry if it goes on to long i might get far to used to it and it would make it more difficult to let someone into my life...

And i know that i dont want to be single forever.. but to be honest i dont really go anywhere to actuallu meet anyone i tend to go out with some girls and we go for a drink and maybe meal, and we huddle round a table never notice anyone else in the place , eat drink and leave.... what chance is there really...

That's exactly what I do cs! Maybe at some point, some brave man will battle his way through the group...! I think this may all take a bit of courage, which I seem to be lacking at the moment - it is all a little scary out there!