We have 2 children and he pays me a certain amount a month. He informed me he was going to pay this amount back in March before DS2 was born. He changed his job in sept, had a big pay rise but refused to pay me anymore maintenance. I accepted it as I've been a victim of emotional and psychological abuse and control from him ever since he left me in jan at 24 weeks pregnant and I couldn't bare any more arguments/threats from him. Anyway, that a side, he's now QUIT his new job and doesn't have anything else lined up. He says he is refusing to work his notice and wouldn't go back to his previous job so I imagine he'll get no further wage. This means I'm not finically responsible for 2 children whilst on standard maternity pay!!!! I literally cannot believe this. I already claim UC but I need that money for our lives! What can I do?! What should I do?! I'm SO stressed!!!