Two dds. They will not do as they are told. Short of physically manhandling them into their rooms they won't go to bed. They was up after about 2 hours of being told to but refuse to use either warm/hot water or washing up liquid so I have to rewash everything. I've removed all Internet access to see if their attitudes improve. Any kind of gaming and watching nonsense on YouTube has a negative effect. I am the worlds worst mother obviously but I have had enough as their behaviour is negatively impacting their brother's behaviour and turning him into an aggressive badly behaved little boy. He is only 5 and copies whatever they do.
What else can I do? I've tried reward systems, house rules, rotas for doing the dishes, they just refuse and no amount of consequences has any effect. I'm exhausted by them all.