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Plentyoffish.com....

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EscapeFrom · 26/07/2007 23:14

They're all bloody married!!

"I have no affection in my 35 year marriage - seeking keep fit fanatic aged betwen 18 and 23 - for discreet hotel fun"

Tossers.

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lou33 · 28/07/2007 21:11

i've got 4 kids as well as being 40, and get asked out a lot

allgonebellyup · 28/07/2007 21:20

i know, but youre a stunna!!!
sorry i keep offending people over the age of 40 and who have more than 2 children!

nutcracker · 28/07/2007 21:21

Haven't replied to any that messaged me on plenty of fish, but have just winked at 2 blokes on smooch and emailed another, who is too young and too nice lookin for me but, his pic was so nice i thought i ought to tell him LOL.

nutcracker · 28/07/2007 21:21

Yes Lou you are a stunner, so you are bound to get asked out.

lou33 · 28/07/2007 21:25

honestly i think most guys accept that once women are past a certain age, they are v likely to have kids

i've never had a problem with it, and if they do, then i dont want to know them tbh

nutcracker · 28/07/2007 21:28

Good for u Lou, wish I could be more like u.

I was devestated that a certain bloke had a prob with me having kids.I know it was his prob not mine, but it made me fell soooooooo shite.

lou33 · 28/07/2007 21:30

but honestly nutty, you shouldnt, he sounds v shallow, and i bet if you had dated him, you would have found that out in pretty quick time

nutcracker · 28/07/2007 21:32

Oh he is very shallow, I know him through a friend and I know he is totally not the right person for me, but he got me hooked and wound me in and then decided I was too much trouble, and even know though I know he isn't good enough it stil hurt alot, especially as I have known him since i was little.

lou33 · 28/07/2007 21:33

you sound well rid

nutcracker · 28/07/2007 21:36

Yep I am you are right.

Oh well, his loss

lou33 · 28/07/2007 21:39

definitely

nutcracker · 29/07/2007 09:42

Ohhhhhhhhh shite, remember I said I sent a few winks on Smooch last night ??

Well one of the blokes is also on plentyoffish and when i went on there this morning, he has added me as a fave AND he has also replied on smooch too saying he'd like to chat.

Help

nutcracker · 29/07/2007 09:47

he sent another message

Have replied, but it's very short as couldn't think of anything to say.

Where are all you experts.

allgonebellyup · 29/07/2007 10:13

oooh is this one of the super fit men?
what is smooch like as a site?

nutcracker · 29/07/2007 10:25

Erm, nut sore this one is super fit, but i like him. Added bonus is that he is a fireman

Anyway he's gone a bit quiet now, probably scared him off already.

Smmoch is good yeah cos you can message people for free.

allgonebellyup · 29/07/2007 10:36

nuts sore??!!

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EscapeFrom · 29/07/2007 10:39

Chat to him then! What's the worst that could happen?

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nutcracker · 29/07/2007 10:40

nut sore, wtf was i thinking about then lol

We have exchanged 2 emails so far and I have added him to msn but he is ofline ad last message i sent is unread so either i scared him or he has gone out.

mojosmum · 29/07/2007 11:01

nutcracker - the down side of him being a fireman is your not likely toget him in your bedroom in uniform.
i can bost that i have had a fireman in uniform in my bedroom infact on my bed & yes he was a real fireman who climbed in through the window

lou33 · 29/07/2007 11:07

are you going to meet him nutty?

nutcracker · 29/07/2007 11:40

LOL Mojo

Dunno if I am gonna meet him Lou, haven't spoken to him properly yet. May never hear from him again lol. If we chatted and got on, then yeah I would meet up with him.

Whats a bettin me being a non driver puts him off though too.

Sorry, will try and stop being so pessamistic.

lou33 · 29/07/2007 11:51

tell him if he wants to see you he has to come to your neck of the woods

always meet them on your turf imo

i've done it, they have never made a fuss

nutcracker · 29/07/2007 11:52

Lol ok, will do.

Will no dobut be bugging you lot for more advice if it gets af far as me meeting him.

lou33 · 29/07/2007 11:53

lol

i'm not sure you want my advice, i mean i am still single arent i?!

nutcracker · 29/07/2007 11:55

Yeah but you know far more about dating than me. Apart from xp, I have never really had a proper date.