Worried about DC having unsupervised contact with ex

[zunshine]

I left him nearly two years ago after years of emotional abuse which did become physical on numberous occasions. We have two DC ages 4 and 6 and he's taken me to court in order to have contact with them, which has been supervised contact for an hour every two weeks for the last few months. This is now going to move on to unsupervised. Although it's been going well apparently I'm still concerned for DC, he'd often get angry at them for small things, I don't think he should be trusted alone with them but everyone involved is shrugging it because he's been fine the whole 7 hours he has spent with them

I think you have to let them go, Will he take them to see his mum or is there likely to be someone else present?

Any signs of distress on their return, document it and raise it with anyone who will listen. It’s so difficult.

maybe give him benefit of the doubt , maybe being supervised has made him realise how lucky he would be to be unsupervised?. like pp said any signs of anything wrong on return raise it with whoever you see fit