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Child maintenance has anyone had this happen?

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whatsthepointthen · 08/01/2019 23:31

So ex doesnt pay any maintenance at all, hasnt done in months. He apparently isnt working or claiming benefits. Cms said today that they will start proceedings to access his bank accounts and take money directly out of his bank account. Has anyone else had this happen? I know so many struggle with CM so struggling to believe it will be as straight forward as it sounds.

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whatsthepointthen · 08/01/2019 23:32

Just to add when I say straight forward I mean accessing his bank and taking money, Nothing else has been straight forward he has barely paid a penny over the years.

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Louisegeorge · 09/01/2019 18:23

Hi there, I’m currently pregnant and I’m going to be a single Mum. Is anyone else in the same situation that would like to chat? I’m feeling very anxious 😟
Louise

Youbrokemytwatometer · 09/01/2019 19:23

Hi @Louisegeorge

You would be better to start your own thread. You might get lost in this one.

Sorry you are feeling anxious. What are your concerns? Will the dad be involved at all? Either way, you will manage. You've come to the right place for support, and there's plenty more of it out there for you. Thanks

Louisegeorge · 09/01/2019 19:49

How do I start my own thread? I’m new to this forum thing 🤦🏼‍♀️. The dad doesn’t want anything to do with it

whatsthepointthen · 09/01/2019 21:30

Hi louise click on the “lone parents” bit at the top of this thread to go back to the main bit then at the bottom when you go back to the lone parents board it should say “add thread” hth

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atomicnotsoblonde · 09/01/2019 22:33

They tried, there wasn't enough money in the account and that was that. He's deliberately emptied them. They can't try again for 12 months.

Epically shit system.

whatsthepointthen · 09/01/2019 23:09

Thank you for the reply. I knew it
wouldnt be as straight forward as
it sounds as surely ex would just close the account. Oh well im use to not getting anything 🤷‍♀️

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