(Sorry if this is long) 
I read a lot about single mums having a tough time with their exes. I’m wondering if anyone of you out there get along very well with yours? Co parent well and attend birthdays together?
If he pulls his weight and has them regularly, calls them, buys them what they need. Generally does a good job.
I’m semi hopeful I have a good egg on my hands. We hadn’t been dating long, when I realised we weren’t ever going to be long term and I wouldn’t develop feelings. (already had third date sex ect and didn’t know I was pregnant)
Anyway I ended things and we parted ways, only to have to make the call “you’re going to be a Dad” he took everything so well, so well I wonder if it’s a bit weird sometimes...
He’s been literally over the moon about baby, he’s sat there with his mum always early for every scan, (I put my foot down at midwife appointments) I’ve been treated to meals meeting family ect we’ve had general catch ups. I let his mum and nan attend baby shower (he brought them early, he’s always early for everything!) he checks in weekly, he’s come for the antenatal appointments 2 so far.
Yesterday he called and said he will drive me to hospital any time, (I’d been worried about this as I live very rurally, parents work away, not all friends can drive or they have children, putting someone out when it’s a false alarm ect) then he’ll pick up both my birth partners, and drop them. (Neither can drive) He understands I don’t want him in room (although I actually feel bit bad about this) so he’s happy to wait in the cafe to find out what the low down is from one of my friends (think he likes her 🙈 I’d be all for them being together!) then he’d either wait in hospital or go home for a bit. He says he doesn’t mind waiting hours and it’s what parents would do. He wants to be able to say he waited in case anything happens ect.
Basically I’m hopeful he will be a smashing father, he knows the score and knows I’m happy for him to meet someone and find love.
This is my (so far so good) appreciation thread for my baby’s dad. 
Just want anyone else to post their positive or negative experiences. Maybe my world will come crashing down! So i’ll get a bit prepared for the worst!