Hi can anyone tell me what kind of access their young babies have with their ex partners. What is the norm for a baby age 4 months up to 1 year? And when would overnight stays usually happen? We are looking to go to mediation but there are issues with drugs and alcohol so I am not keen for overnights until ds is much older. Also we split when ds was 2 week old so he isn't aware of his day to day routine or anything. I think little and often is best when children are so young. Is once a week fair perhaps a Sunday afternoon?