Inappropriate behaviour from ex's new partner

[redkaybee]

Hello
Dealing with an ex who has new partner. Was informed by my four year old daughter that she had a bath with my ex partners new girlfriend - as in both naked in the bath together.
Is this normal behaviour?
I feel like it is crossing boundaries - I am a very present mum - I do all the parenting. It has been described as disrespectful by another mum friend of mine. My daughter never overnights as ex can't be bothered.
Thoughts please - and ways to approach the situation.
Thanks

IMO it would've been her natural curiosity not something sinister but also imo not something I am comfortable with or would like her to repeat. Boundaries that are respectful need to be employed here.

I would report to Social Care, if this was a man you wouldn't think twice. I wouldn't even inform my ex.

I would also stop contact until it was resolved.

This is absolutely not on OP, I would be very uncomfortable with this. How long has this woman been seeing your ex?

It sounds like you need to speak to someone for professional advice on what to do... I've not been in the UK for a while so don't know what would be most appropriate- anyone else?

You might not like it but it's not wrong, harmful or illegal is it and therefore you really should butt out of what happens at Dads house.

Your child should not have picked up that you were unhappy about this.

QuiteLikely5 but does the df actually know??? HE should know what is happening regarding his dd at HIS house. .

Wtf? Touching breasts and "lower regions" in the bath is definitely wrong!

Call SS, asap!