Hi there, sorry to be so forward, but I was looking through the old threads and saw yours.
I am in the same position you were in Febuary. I have just moved out with my DD (3yrs) and am really struggling to make it on my own. I am fine financially, but just miss my DH so so much. I also feel terrible for taking my DD out of a house full with kids and animals into a quite little townhouse where its just the two of us. I have been there 3 weeks now and have yet to cook a meal! I get takeaway from a restaurant cause I dont know what to cook for just her and me. Used to cooking for a full house. Any tips on how to "live" as if our situation is normal? How are you doing now? Are you all settled and moved on? Also, I am considering taking her and going to live in SA. (In portugal now). All my friends and family are in SA. So confused though cause I almost hope my DH and I can work things out, even though I know I was miserable living with him. Any advice? Maybe him and I can change to suit each other better.... sorry for the rant.