This may be me completely over reacting but me and my two children father are not together anymore he sees them as and when he wants to and still thinks he can boss me around after 2 years apart but my concern is that when my kids stayed at their dads over Christmas I spoke to my daughter on the phone (she's 5) and she sounded drunk! I confronted her dad and he said I was being stupid so I tried to forget about it, my daughter is staying at her dads this week as my son has had a operation and she can be quiet boisterous and tonight after 7 attempts at me ringing her she sounded drunk again, what can I do