Ex see's his DS (4) 50%. So 2,2,3 arrangement. I don't ideally want this arrangement as DS gets moved 3 times a week. I feel like I have no say.
Ex is passive aggressive and still controlling.
I understand he loves and wants to see his son, but I feel like DS is not being put first.
Ex moved out last October and into his Mums, 4-5 miles away.
We have a flat which I am paying all for and we will be selling in the near future.(nest year)
The thing is we live south west London, I cant afford to buy what I'm living in alone, and I feel awful considering moving further out to afford to buy a new home. DS has just started reception too.
Renting a 2 bed flat is around £1200pcm !
I cant afford to buy him out.
I feel like I'm stuck.
IS this the way it has to be for everyone else's happiness ?
If I consider my self I have to face my conscience.....