ex told dd she was staying at his an extra night without checking

[Mollymom]

Am I being daft to pull him up on this or should I let it go?

Tell him that i's fine this time but in future he needs to double check that you and DD don't have any plans, appountments etc.

Don't let it go or it will happen again. Just put it in writing that you don't want this happening again and that he must check with you first. You don't have to be hostile about it, but it needs to be said.

Good idea. I felt like I had been set up. Need to be much clearer about drop off times