Facing the reality that dh and I will split- need advice

[Whoknows36]

Hi,

I don't know what to think or do. Dh told me last night he isn't sure if he can continue as we are, he thinks its best we separate. We've been together 20 yrs and have two dc. He has told me he's gay, hence the possible split. We still get on well and I hoped we could still make it work.
I have no idea what we do next, how do we sort out the finances? How do we tell the dc? How will I cope? Can I even afford to be alone?

I'm so confused and upset about it all

Ah you poor thing

May I suggest you ask for this to be moved to relationships? There are some lovely people there with lots of good advice and support.

I went through the gay thing with exH myself, but he then re-married

Have a hug x

Find someone to talk to in real life and get your head round the immediate situation. Only then will you be able to discuss what happens next with your oh x