so i posted a bit back about ex cutting contact in school hols to bare minimum ie no extra days simply normal term time contact visits, normally he has them extra days because i always felt it was the perfect time for them to spend extra time with him when the pressure of homework and bedtime routine isnt there!
but now he is moaning about having them for tea as normal on wed nights during the school hols, i just asked what time he was getting them tomorrow thinking he might collect them earlier as its halfterm and oh i dont know spend some bloody time with them but nope he would rather not!
its wed tomorrow, this has come from nowhere and they think they are going because its wed and they always have done.
always comes back down to me not being able to make him be the father i think he should be, the father my girls deserve really. so i guess its more a rant post than anything
it just seems since he met his gf and her children hes just not interested in our girls contacts been slowly cut more and more despite my best efforts to increase it at the girls insistance and im fighting a losing battle its like he just doesnt care anymore!