I'm not sure whether here is the best place to talk about this but it seemed like the best to me, so I apologise in advance if I upset anybody :).
My son is 5 months old and to be perfectly honest he wasn't planned. But anyway, he's here and he's gorgeous and I love him to bits. His father, my partner are still together but living in different countries. I'm living here in England and he lives in Germany. He's currently studying for a degree and we agreed that's what he should do and I'll care for our son until he's finished, then we'll do it together. He says he is keen on being a part of our son's life but his contact with me is useless. He won't ever instigate a conversation with me and whenever we do talk he is always more interested in something else. I'm very concerned as I love him very much but I feel like I'm the one making all the effort. I've told him all of this and he just tells me to stop over-reacting. It just makes me want to cry :(