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CSA and contact with children - does it effect payments?

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LilllyLovesLife · 22/11/2012 17:37

CSA, after over 2 years have finally taken the first payment from my ex. This sat, I have said he can't have the kids (long story and I have good reason).

He reckons he is going to phone the CSA and say I am refusing contact and that will effect my payments? Not that worried as he is contesting the payments anyway and I have managed without it for long enough. To me, money has nothing to do with if/when he has the kids, it's about what is best for them.

But I just want to check if I am correct in thinking the CSA don't take any notice of if he sees the kids or not? And it won't effect my claim? I know if they sleep there over a certain amount of times it changes things but it's never been anywhere near that at any point so thinking this shouldn't effect anything.

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goralka · 22/11/2012 17:40

separate issues Lilly, do not worry, typical BS.

LilllyLovesLife · 22/11/2012 17:51

Thanks, that's what I thought and said. Just wanted to check!

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avenueone · 22/11/2012 20:25

Tell him they are not pay per view...and that the CSA will point that out. No need to worry at all.

chocolatespiders · 22/11/2012 20:29

Your right it is only if they sleep and even then the less they sleep the more he pays.

LilllyLovesLife · 26/11/2012 09:34

Thanks all again. He is such an arsehole and I am so fed up! Sad

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