what did you do [rebel]after split?

[almostanangel]

so come on what was your first thing you did that you couldnt do before,,ie hair cut tattoo etc

sold the rest of his stuff on ebay

dobbed him into the inland revenue for not doing his tax return, and three years on he still hasn't paid me a penny so if I knew where he lived would dob him into the CSA as well

oh yes and when he did a disappearing act and I knew he had paid a visit to his ex, I cut one cuff off each long sleeved shirt and cut through the laces in all his shoes, petty but made me feel a hell of a lot better

Painted my kitchen pink,
get to watch what i wanna watch,
don't dread his coming home,
don't have to put up with his moods,
the list could go on

I have only just split up with hb and as im pg i cant exactly go out and celebrate, but so far I have asked my Mum to be my birth partner, arranged to see a solicitor and arranged to go on job seekers allowance whilst I sort myself out. I am also making plans to set up my own business and as soon as the baby is born I'm going to join weight watchers and get myself slim again! I feel so organised. The thing that has surprised me is that I really don't feel sad or unhappy that weve split up. I actually just feel relieved at the moment and the fact my blood pressure has come down to normal again says everything to me! It's so nice being able to see friends and family as and when I want to and to not have to walk on egg shells all the time to avoid rows.

that/s exactly how i felt 6 months ago, glad you are happier!! :)