absent dad demanding contact after 9yrs

[SANDIE58]

my grandchild is ten her so called dad hasnt saw her since she was 8mths old is now dragging my daughter thru courts to get contact has never paid a penny and is lying thru his teeth and as usual im made out to be the baddie cos im protecting my child from the hurt any advice welcome cafcass are looking to speak to child bout her dad i feel its my place to explain to her not a stranger.

Your child?or grandchild?

Contact will start off small and build up,don't worry,he can't just come in and whisk her away for days out! It will be a slow gradual process.

Well once the reality of contact starts he will get bored again. Has he recently got with a woman he lied to about why he has no contact by any chance? So sorry for your child/gc. She will get the chance now to forget her fantasy Dad and see him for who he is. Contact CSA.

Yes, contact the csa!