H in process of moving out. Was been absent 2 weeks out of every 4 last year due to working away from home etc and out most nights so only saw DD (only child, 8Yrs) for 5 mins in morning or sometimes at weekends. He has now has OW and is leaving. DD picking up on tension - no major rows and I am holding it together (just) but she is always saying how much she misses Daddy. She is going to have to get used to him being around a lot less. I am stay at home mum but also need to get life going again but don't want her to feel abandoned by both of us - suggestions? How did others children of this age in this situation cope?