Does anyone have any experience of applying for a variation? I am just getting so fed up and drained of fighting for any maintenance, and wonder if it is even worth filling out this form!
A bit of background, my ex is a nasty violent man, so I had to leave him as I did not want my baby brought up in that sort of home. He has seen her once since I gave birth and that was only to pick up some stuff. He says he hopes she dies a slow and painful death.
He is wealthy although works cash in hand etc, has not paid any tax since 2005 and so does not have to pay me a single penny as he is not on a payrol. He has cars worth over £100k and have had at leasst 5 holidays already this year.