Dating websites..too well known

[justonemorethen]

I am now an offical single girl again . The usual problem of how to meet anyone rears it's head. When ex and I broke up last year I had ago at dating websites.Disaster.

Everyone I know male and female is on match.com so that's hopeless..we all know everyone on there already in our area. Went on my single friend.com. Within two days my ex had been told by his mate's that I was on there, so obviously everyone in my area checks this out too. Not prepared for all the joke dates that I'd be sent on.

Now I'm single properly just had a look at uniform dating..bloke from work on there too embarassing to be on the same site as him. Just looked at mucky boots and knew three of blokes on there too.
I am happy to search out of my area but that doesn't stop where I live coming up for the blokes does it.I could make up a profile address but still worried about putting a photo on as it looks totally sad to have lied if I am spotted.

Anyone got a good subtle site? Advice on dating on the down low?

Sorry I dont have any advice but can totally see where you are coming from, I have singed up to match and plenty of fish (without a photo) not ready to date yet but testing the water and I know so many people on there that I would be too shy to put a pic on!

Sod what your ex thinks - he is an ex for a reason!

Good luck - hope someone else has better advice for you!

Why not try e harmony. Not a website you can trawl through it just matches you and sends you profiles of matches. This means that your profile wont be up in public in cyberspace for all to see.

Have had a couple of dates from it so far - all good ones!

Thanks. Will have a look at eharmony that sounds better. Saw the advert on TV and it looked a bit intense but pleased to hear you think it's been OK.