hi i'm a 1st time mum and have not been very good at the socialising since jas was born, bit of a quiet shy person & find it very daunting to go to the local mother & baby groups (not that there are many in my area).i kept meaning to go when she was born but never have & now i feel that everyone will be in a click, so will be hard to make new friends! HELP daft 1st time mum