Hello please no hate im just looking for opinions.
A woman that lives two doors down from me has a daughter and my youngest son is in the same class, I assumed we got on ok until one day I received a letter from social services or someone like that, saying she had complained about us saying we were always swearing and arguing, sometimes I admit we do but I think she was making out it was happening more than it actually was, and she lied in the letter saying she had made complaints before and we ignored them, that was a complete lie as the letter was the first we had even heard about it.
anyway I confronted her about it and I asked her why she had to do that behind my back and not just ask me face to face, anyway to cut a long story short we don't speak now and she makes it difficult for me when I have to take my sons to school on a morning as she seems popular with other mothers for some reason and I feel excluded and like im being talked about.
All I wanted to ask was if it was you would you have complained or just went and spoke to the neighbour? As I'm unsure whether she was just being sly or if she was right to do it I just don't see whats hard about messaging me or speaking to me at the school about it and she would have rather took the other route.
I also wanted to ask it is normal isn't it to argue with your other half at times isn't it? Because she's making out we aren't normal.
Thankyou for the advice.