Moving away from london

[Maggiecheng]

Hello everyone

I’m currently living in London but will probably have to move to north due to my partner job is anyone having this scary/anxious feeling of not want to 😭

Why are you compelled to move for his job?I understand him moving,why you?

Where is north? Where is he relocating to?

Plenty culture and vibrancy in north of uk

Hello I guess because we are married
And it will be in Newcastle

Newcastle is a super city, manageable size. Beaches near by, good restaurants
Lovely super friendly people. Highly recommend it

Don’t know if I can use to it also I prefer being near my parents too

Would you work or study?what would you do in Newcastle?

Fastest train to London under 3 hours

I would work however still looking for a job

As first I thought that I can accept moving so far away but eventually i find myself that I couldn’t. Do you think this is an bug issue that it will affect the whole relationship ?

People can and do have long distance relationship
Only you know if that’s an option you both want
It’s a hard conversation you’re clearly not happy, but he wants to move for career progression
Something or someone has to give

Options are
Do nothing both stay in london
He move you stay
You both move

Ahh it’s so hard

Have you been in this situation before ?

Yes I have done a long distance relationship for a few years,different countries
Both at uni in different countries. With planning, email,face time it’s achievable
BUT you both have to want it and have a plan to be together. If you’re not planning a together you’re incompatible
I don’t think women need to follow men,there needs to be a mutual gain and both happy to do it

Do you think this problem is relegated to age ?

What’s on your mind? What are the circumstances of him having to move

Not much just don’t like the place, He has to move because he sponsored by his job

and you? What’s your situation?
If you stay in london what will happen?

I guess I will just stay with my parents and keep working