My ds is now nearly 3 years old and instead of losing weight I'm now putting even more on. Had a miscarriage earlier this year and this did set me back. I'm 44, so pretty pleased I have a great lad and a fab husband. But,I'm suffering from the following:- middle age spread,love of cooking and of course eating,dodgy knee,working part-time and a little guilt. I'm a member of a gym but I'm wasting the money. Didn't get back to pre-prenancy weight was 9st9 now 11st4. Anybody with some advice? How do you fit excercise into your day and do everything else?