Me and hubs are 9yrs married,he has got an x who cheated on him before meeting me.That X gf begged on her knees to win hubs back even when he is already married,one day i found out that they are still in touch and have read on the x emails that she is still longing for my hubs,at one part my hubs mentioned to her that i am not a good mom unlike her (she has a son from her previous marriage-she is a divorcee btw).When I read that it hit me hard and we fought about it.i told my dh to go back to her and ill be fine.
Last night while otw to the restaurant someone was calling twice and dh was cancelling the call and he said it is her mother calling,i said why dont you answer your phone?then, when we were already at the restaurant i went to the toilet and passed by his back and saw him looking at our daughters picture and i was like "she is sooo cute there,blah blah and told him to send it to me" he was like "yeah ok go back to ur seat ill send it to you" but i didnt leave behind him,(cuz it seemed like a facebook messenger app,one tap and name is going to appear)he was insisting on me to go back to my seat and i didnt VOILA!its X name that pop out on the screen,i just didnt know if he knows that ive seen it but definitely it changed my mood.
Now, this morning I am thinking on how to ask him a question.
"Why are you sending my daughters picture to your X?"
Ist even justifiable? 🤭🙁