I have been with my OH for 10 years now and for the past 3 years my head has started to block out the thought of sex. I feel that i want it and i want my husband but when it comes to it i feel that my head keeps saying no that i dont actually want it. Once we actually do have sex its the same old things and i dont feel i want to try anything new incase im no good at it or i am a let down. My OH keeps trying stuff and wants to bring back the passion, heat and excitment but i just feel like i have a barrier. Does anyone else have this problem or any advice