Anybody on here? Can only see old posts! Am 35, married & a Mum of two. Used my career as a diversion in life and now find Im lacking in mates. My best friends are all male & now we all have families, rarely see each other. My new baby was very much wanted & we waited a long old time for him. Now he is here, I have the time on my hands to re-evaluate my life. Im feeling quite lonely and a stupid fool for using my career as a crutch whilst I faced the pain of infertility. Looking at starting a exercise class... feel as though my options are really limited. How do you start to make friends in your mid-30's?